没有人会比你更好的对待自己No one’s ever gonna treat you better than you

Every time you scroll on social media, couples are out there doing simple things that make the hopeless romantic in you cry inside. Cooking together. Reading a book at the beach. Or surprising each other on birthdays.

每次刷新在社交媒体，情侣们都在做一些简单的事情，这让你内心深处的浪漫情怀感到心酸。一起做饭。在海滩上阅读。或是在生日时互相惊喜。

Then, you see the comments.

然后，你看到了评论。

It’s either may this love find me or God, is it too much to ask?

要么是“希望这份爱能找到我”，要么是“天啊，这真的有那么难吗？”

All of a sudden, you feel like the worst kind of person. Just because you’re still single.

突然间，你感觉自己像是世界上最糟糕的人。仅仅因为你还是单身。

Let me tell you, it’s not a crime to be single in your 20s.

让我告诉你，在20多岁时单身不是罪。

It just means you have more time to focus on YOU.

这只意味着你有更多时间专注于自己。

Yes and yes, I get it. You want to be loved. To be seen. To be considered. To be understood. To be blah blah.

是的，我明白。你想被爱。被看见。被重视。被理解。诸如此类。

But, did you know?

但是，你知道吗？

The greatest love story happens between you and yourself.

最伟大的爱情故事发生在你和自己之间。

Don’t wait for someone to spoil you because YOU HAVE YOURSELF.

不要等待别人宠爱你，因为你已经拥有了自己。

People may come and go, but you will always have yourself.

人来人往，但你永远拥有自己。

When was the last time you were loyal to yourself?

你上一次对自己忠诚是什么时候?

When was the last time you prioritised yourself over someone else?

你上一次把自己置于他人之上是什么时候?

This is your sign to start over rebuilding a deep connection with yourself.

这是重新与自己建立深度联系的信号。

No one tell you about this, but remember:

没人告诉过你，但请记住：

When you spend more time on yourself, expect loneliness and emptiness to come. Embrace them instead of trying to get rid of them. They are not a disease. They are not your enemy.

当你花更多时间关注自己时，孤独和空虚将随之而来。拥抱它们，而不是试图摆脱它们。它们不是疾病，不是你的敌人。

It’s also not a sign that you need a romantic relationship. What you need is to focus on filling up your own cup. That’s it.

这也不意味着你需要一段浪漫关系。你需要的是填满自己的内心。就是这样。

That’s the only thing you need.

这是你唯一需要的。

To those still waiting for their future partner:

对于那些仍在等待未来伴侣的人：

It’s OKAY to be single in your 20s.You will never be this age again, so focus on loving yourself loudly,proudly, and unapologetically in every moment.

在20多岁时单身是完全可以的。你不会再有这个年龄段，所以要大声、自豪、不妥协地热爱自己，珍惜每一刻。

May this year be the one where you love yourself just a little more.

愿今年是你稍微更加爱自己的一年。