被爱时的感觉是怎样的呢How does it feel to be loved?
To be loved feels like finally being able to rest.
被爱，就像终于能够安心歇息。
Recently, I stumbled upon a TikTok trend where girls shared slides of their conversations with their loved ones. It began with, “No one could handle your words of affirmation,” and the rest of the images left me teary-eyed, knowing that people out there are loved that much, and some others have a love that is so sincere it defeats.
最近，我无意中刷到一个TikTok趋势，女孩们分享了自己与爱人之间的聊天截图。它以一句话开始：“没有人能承受你的肯定型语言。”随后的每一张截图都让我眼眶泛泪——原来，这个世界上真的有人被这样深深地爱着，而有些人的爱，真诚得近乎让人心碎。
As someone who has words of affirmation as my primary love language, I understand the power of words. Words of course can either touch or hurt me effortlessly.
作为一个把“肯定型语言”当作爱的主要表达方式的人，我很清楚语言的力量。文字当然可以轻易地触动我，也可以毫不费力地伤害我。
Sincerely. Wholeheartedly. Completely.
真诚地。全心全意地。毫无保留地。
I am unfamiliar with such feelings. I forget when was the last time someone loved me that much because most of the time, I love.
我并不熟悉那样的感觉。我甚至已经忘了，上一次有人这样爱我是什么时候。因为大多数时候，我都是那个在爱的人。
I have been in relationships before, but there was never a moment where I felt the butterflies-in-the-stomach sensation that people often describe.
我也曾进入过几段感情，但从未有过人们常说的那种“心跳到胃里翻腾”的时刻。
It makes me think, was I really loved at that time? Or was it just one-sided excitement? Whose feelings are actually unrequited, and I was only pitied because I looked so pathetic?
这让我开始怀疑：那时的我，真的被爱过吗？还是说，那不过是一场单方面的热情？究竟是谁的感情无人回应？我是不是只是因为看起来太可怜，才被同情？
Indeed. I have had feelings for people. Say I love them. And all the time, I just love. Never loved.
确实如此。我也曾对人动过真心，说过我爱你。但从头到尾，我都只是爱着，从未被爱。
I’m familiar with the feelings of loving someone, but I’m really groping at what it feels like to be truly loved by someone.
我很熟悉“去爱一个人”的感觉，却摸索不清，“被一个人真正爱着”到底是什么样子。
Someone who adores you from head to toe.
一个从头到脚都珍惜你的人。
Someone who loves you because you are you.
一个因为你是你而爱你的人。
Someone who feels nothing but love that is overflowing and ready to be poured into you at any moment. Someone who wants you.
一个内心只有满溢的爱，随时准备倾注给你的人。一个真正渴望你的人。
Someone who can’t imagine a future without you.
一个无法想象没有你未来的人。
Someone who plans to spend his entire life and grow old with you.
一个打算用一生与你相伴、慢慢变老的人。
Once I read that to love and to be loved is to rest. Therefore, one must feel the sense of comfort and security around the people they love. I dream the same too.
我曾读到一句话：爱人与被爱，本身就是一种“安放”。因此，在所爱之人身边，人应当感到舒适与安全。我也一样，渴望如此。
I hope I will be loved in the gentle way possible. I truly long to have someone who will ask how was my day going in the midst of our little talks before bed. I dream to have someone who will hold my hand in the crowds even though it does not scare me at all; just to make sure I am still around their radar and they not lose me.
我希望自己能以最温柔的方式被爱。我真心渴望，有人在睡前的闲聊里问我一句“今天过得怎么样”。我也幻想，有人会在人群中牵住我的手——并不是因为我害怕，而只是想确认：我还在他的视线里，没有走丢。
I want to come back home after a tough day and be welcomed by a warm hug and pats on my head. I want to be wrapped in their arms every night so that I won’t have bad dreams haunt me anymore. I want to share what I get through lately without fear of burdening them, knowing that they always couldn’t wait to hear what has gotten through me when we weren’t near each other.
我想在疲惫的一天后回到家，被一个温暖的拥抱和轻轻的摸头迎接。我想每晚都被拥在怀里，好让噩梦不再来找我。我想毫无负担地分享最近经历的一切，因为我知道——当我们不在彼此身边时，他们始终迫不及待地想听见我的生活。
I just want to be loved in a way that makes me realize that I am worthy of it no matter what.
我只是想要一种能让我意识到无论如何我都值得被爱的方式。
Perhaps love is not just about the feelings we’re about to experience, but about the actions one should take. It is about showing up, being present, and being willing to put in the effort to make someone feel seen, heard, and loved.
或许，爱并不仅仅关乎我们即将感受到的悸动，而更关乎我们愿意采取的行动。它关乎出现、在场，以及愿意付出努力，让一个人感到被看见、被倾听、被珍惜。
For in the end, love is not just a feeling. Love is a choice, a commitment, and a journey that requires effort, patience, and dedication.
因为到最后，爱从来不只是感觉。爱是一种选择、一份承诺，也是一段需要努力、耐心与付出的旅程。
I always believe tomorrow has something brighter, and it maybe that i will finally be loved the way i love.
我始终相信，明天会有更明亮的东西。也许有一天，我终于能被像我爱别人那样地爱着。
